Tell Tale Signs
In any social situation, ones body gestures speaks volumes.
Often we are to busy, wrapped up in our own thoughts to pay detailed attention to hidden communication. Being more aware of others gestures can help you understand and gain confidence in any social situation.
A handshake alone can make or break the trust between two individuals. An overly aggressive shake in a demand of power, often used by those insecure individuals in an attempt to convince you otherwise. Do not be concerned with this type of individual as they need your approval.
A weak handshake on the other hand is a person with little interest in others. Almost to the point of self absorbed. They will not openly listen to what you have to say, and have no time to invest in a deeper relationship.
The best handshake in one will equal firmness, one that matches you own. Said to be a sign of equal respect and intrest for both parties.
While sitting at a table across from another we can read hidden communication as well. When one leans away from the table they are feeling defensive, or aloof. A good listener will lean over the table or into the speaker. Many times with married people we can see who is more dominant in the relationship by table play. The weaker individual will have a must smaller comfort zone, while the other will hog table space.
(Also seen in the bedroom, bed hogs are often the controllers)
From lighting a smoke, to how one holds his knife or fork all plays into the silent language of gestures. Perhaps before forming an opinion on another you should make note of these small gestures.
It will provide you will a better understanding, and stronger interpersonal skills.
In any social situation, ones body gestures speaks volumes.
Often we are to busy, wrapped up in our own thoughts to pay detailed attention to hidden communication. Being more aware of others gestures can help you understand and gain confidence in any social situation.
A handshake alone can make or break the trust between two individuals. An overly aggressive shake in a demand of power, often used by those insecure individuals in an attempt to convince you otherwise. Do not be concerned with this type of individual as they need your approval.
A weak handshake on the other hand is a person with little interest in others. Almost to the point of self absorbed. They will not openly listen to what you have to say, and have no time to invest in a deeper relationship.
The best handshake in one will equal firmness, one that matches you own. Said to be a sign of equal respect and intrest for both parties.
While sitting at a table across from another we can read hidden communication as well. When one leans away from the table they are feeling defensive, or aloof. A good listener will lean over the table or into the speaker. Many times with married people we can see who is more dominant in the relationship by table play. The weaker individual will have a must smaller comfort zone, while the other will hog table space.
(Also seen in the bedroom, bed hogs are often the controllers)
From lighting a smoke, to how one holds his knife or fork all plays into the silent language of gestures. Perhaps before forming an opinion on another you should make note of these small gestures.
It will provide you will a better understanding, and stronger interpersonal skills.
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